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Public temper tantrums can be threatening, the tears can be tempting and the pouty face can be cute; but parenting experience has taught us that saying “no” is sometimes the best thing to do. We all want to see our children happy but we also want to be respected when we make the decision to say “no.” Here are some reasons why we cave in and why we should say “no” sometimes.
1. We don’t have the time to go back and forth
Many parents cave into their children’s antics because of lack of time. We parents don’t want to deal with an hour worth of begging, so we say “yes” to eating cake before dinner to save time. The more times we do this though, a certain level of respect is lost and it could be hard to get back. If you are naturally non confrontational, don’t make it an argument. Firmly state that the answer is “no,” clearly explain why and move on. If your child insists on begging or acting out, simply ignore it.
2. We don’t want our children to grow up feeling defeated
Some parents have great worries that hearing the word “no” will negatively affect their child’s self-esteem. We want our child to grow up believing that they can command what they want in life and their belief in themselves can dictate their outcomes. But it’s an important lesson to learn that there will be hurdles and rules to abide by in life and all journeys are not easy. When you say “no” and provide them with adequate reason for why this is the answer, their self-esteem isn’t damaged. To the contrary, morale is built. You are teaching your child a thing or two about self-control.
3. Your child is wearing the pants these days
The last thing you want between you and your child is a power struggle. You are the parent and you are in charge. This does not mean your child will not be given choices or will not learn to lead. When you are dealing with a young child however, it is very important to instill respect, boundaries and self control in your child from an early age. By caving in every time your child shouts and screams despite what is right and what is wrong, you are ultimately forfeiting your power. This can be incredibly damaging as your child becomes older. If you have already gotten to the point where your child isn’t accepting your “no” for an answer, it’s time to make some changes.
What’s something your child wanted recently that you had to say “no” to? Tell us in the comment section below!
Written by Jennifer Cicci of Babee Talk
As a mother, Jennifer understands the importance of offering nothing by the best for baby. Motivated by teeth marks on her children’s cribs, she decided to design a teething rail cover after trying products that didn’t measure up when it came to quality or style. What she found out made her even more concerned about children’s safety and health: The toxic chemicals used in the production of synthetic materials have been linked to birth defects, reproductive disorders, and weakened immune systems.
She asked herself, “What if I could revolutionize the way parents decorated their crib with a safe and stylish teething rail cover that could be placed on the crib from day one?” Babee Talk® launched in 2014 with organic bedding and accessories. Chew-friendly, drool-friendly, and organic inside and out, her products ensure a healthy start in life for babies.
She only offers products that she would provide for her own children. She hopes moms and dads will start to talk about the importance of choosing safe, healthy, eco-friendly products, especially for babies.
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